Does my bum look big in this...?

Fatness, dieting ... I think all woman can relate to these two issues. However i know that some girls out there are thinking "No way, I have never thought that I was fat." But if you say that then you are a liar. Everyday my friends say to me "Diana I am on a diet..." "I am seriously going on a diet..." OR "Oh my gosh look at my tree trunks" *which means legs* "i SO have cankles..." *which means no ankles cause the fat takes over... stupid i know* "Dont let me eat that, it will go straight to my thighs." Now I am not going to lie and say i dont think like that. Cause I do. I will always complain to a mate of mine who is the loveliest person ever (you know who you are, and you probably wont read this...:(... oh well) I always say "I am sooooooo fat" And he or she will always say no your not. But like all women out there, it doesnt work. The only way women will be able to get over their so called "fatness" is if they love themselves. I dont mean ordering ppl to get down on one knee and worshipping them or making shrines to themselves, i mean accepting who you are. Yes you might have big thighs. But look on the brightside, that will be great for you to have kids. And by the way I am NOT stereotyping for all woman to have babies. It is their decision if they want to have no children. Always always always look to the bright side when you are feeling low. You think your fat well think about your beautiful ocean blue eyes, or your amazingly shiney hair or anything else you love about your body (i think i know what brooke and kelsey are thinking and i really dont want them to share it with me... thankyou). And one another note, if you are REALLY complaining all the time that you are fat, then DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT IF IT IS THAT BAD! I dont mean starving yourselves. And deep down you know if you are really fat. For some women they may not be fat but they say they are cause they feel guilty about they're pig out they had the night before. So if you are one of those women who think you are fat, dont go on a diet unless you have a HUGE reason to. Other women out there, if you feel guilty just cut down or take out the junk food intake or eat HEALTHY (hey thats new!) I always think i am fat yes, and ppl always tell me I am not, so i am just eating healthy now. I am not gonna cut down extremely, just a little bit. But guys if you are readng this then just accept that women think they are fat. Dont try and change their way of thinking cause it never will change. I bet Eve would've looked at herself and thought, oh my goodness check out THOSE hips! But one thing is for certain guys... dont make jokes about their weight. Not even a small one. Cause it cuts real deep. So yeah... I have had my say. Have a good day!